Sandrine Jourdan's family just want her safe return
or to know she is okay.
IT has been one month since Sandrine Jourdan vanished without a trace
but her family remain hopeful that their loved one will come home soon.
The 37-year-old single mum of three was last seen on Friday, July 13
after her mum Sylvia dropped her off at a friend's place so they could
travel together to a Buddhist retreat on the Gold Coast.
"She wanted to find herself and get her life back on track but she
never went to the retreat," Sylvia said.
Sandrine was last seen leaving a residence on Tomlinson Rd, Caboolture
later that day.
She has not made contact with friends, family or police since.
By Monday (July 16) Sandrine's family knew something wasn't right and
her brother Phillip, reported her missing to police.
"She always had the support of friends and family, originally we
thought she would have been at a friend's house somewhere," he said.
Eight days after she went missing on July 21, Queensland Police
Service notified the public of Ms Jourdan's disappearance.
Almost instantly members of the public posted questions on the QPS
Facebook asking why the disappearance wasn't made public sooner.
However a police social media spokesman said that it was up to
investigators as to what point, if any, they went public with missing
persons cases.
"With a lot of missing persons cases the people involved are not
necessarily missing and simply do not wish to be found," the spokesman said.
Since then police and SES have conducted searches of bushland
surrounding Tomlinson Rd and appealed to the public for information without
success.
The family has also put in hours of searching, travelling as far as
Rainbow Beach to put up signs pleading for information.
"As a family we've made so many phone calls, driven everywhere we
think she might be and have remained in touch with her friends in hopes of
finding something," Sandrine's sister Christine said.
"We just want her to know we love her and want her to come home."
Christine described Sandrine as a caring, free spirit who loved art
and music and had a passion for the outdoors.
"When Sandrine went missing, someone asked us to show a picture of
Sandrine not smiling, I thought to myself that's not Sandrine, she was
always smiling," Christine said.
"She is a genuinely friendly person who would do anything for anyone,
she has a great heart," her Aunt Nardia said.
The family believe Sandrine's disappearance is highly out of
character.
"Sandrine plans everything, she is normally very organised and
everything had to be pre-planned," Christine said.
"It's not like her to walk off and not contact us and there is no way
she would not contact her children, she usually would contact them at least
twice a week."
On the day of her disappearance Ms Jourdan was seen wearing a light
mauve, long-sleeved jumper and dark dress pants.
She was described as being Caucasian in appearance, about 164cm tall
with a proportionate build and has brown hair, brown eyes and speaks fluent
French, German and English.
The family have urged the public to come forward with information.
"We can't put together the pieces of the puzzle without public help,"
Nardia said.
Sandrine's family have created a Facebook group to help with search
efforts. It can be found
here.
Have you seen Sandrine?
Anyone with information to assist police with their
investigations should contact Crime Stoppers, anonymously if necessary, on
1800333000 or crimestoppers.com.au.
Where is Sandrine?
The last time Sandrine Jourdan was seen she was walking up a friend's
driveway in the Sunshine Coast.
That was on July 13.
Since then she has not accessed her bank accounts, used her phone or
wished two of her children a happy birthday.
Her family have launched a desperate search for her, creating a
Facebook page, making a YouTube video and her sister,
Christine Jourdan, spent $2000 in one month calling every person she
could find with a connection to her sister.
So why have you heard about
Allison Baden-Clay and
Jill Meagher, but this may be the first time you are reading the
name Sandrine Jourdan?
Where is this missing woman's saturation media coverage? Why is her
Facebook page not garnering tens of thousands of supporters?
Her family has campaigned relentlessly for the 90 days that Sandrine
has been missing and her sister is at a loss as to why they have managed
a handful of news articles in period when Mrs Baden-Clay and Ms Meagher
dominated the headlines of all news outlets.
She is desperate to get her missing sister's story on television news
and has called every station she could think of but described one
television station in particular as "very rude".
"They turned around to us and said 'well what's so special about her?
Please explain what's so special and maybe we'll do a story about her'
and when we told them what was going on they said 'no, that's not
newsworthy'," Ms Jourdan said.
"When they told us that we said 'you've got to be kidding me' ... two
weeks later they ran a story about a dog being reunited in America and I
was like 'that's where it could have been put in, just a photo of my
sister'.
"I'm not asking you to do a full story, just put up a photo:
'Missing. Hey'."
Sandrine had broken up with her partner the month before she went
missing and was staying with friends and family but had secured a new
place to live before she disappeared.
Some friends said she had been planning to go on a Buddhist retreat
so her siblings rang every Buddhist retreat in Australia but none had
heard of Sandrine.
"For Sandrine just to go and not tell somebody where she is going is
weird and the circumstances to it are just weird too because she was
supposed to go with a friend to Motocross and she walked to the end of
his driveway and by the time he drove to the end of his driveway she was
no longer there," she said.
"...That was the last anybody heard or saw of her, since then I got
hold of her phone bills and contacted every single person on her phone
bills and in her phone book."
Ms Jourdan said she knew something was wrong straight away when her
brother reported their sister missing.
But other people had tried to reassure her, saying perhaps her sister
had "gone off to clear her head".
Then September 3, the 17th birthday of one of her daughters, came and
went and she did not get a 'happy birthday' from her mother.
More people became more worried.
Then September 19 came and went and Sandrine's son turned 14 without
a phone call, or even a Facebook post, from his mother.
Now everybody connected to her is sick with worry but the family
still cannot get the word out.
When asked how the children are coping with their mother's
disappearance, the answer is surprising.
"They are really upset that we can't get on to televisions to
actually get it out there," Ms Jourdan said.
"... People are only just beginning to realise she is missing because
the families have been pushing it so hard on Facebook and in newspapers
which are our only outlets."
She has "absolutely no idea" why the disappearance of her beloved
sister has barely raised the eyebrow of a journalist, yet media packs
swarmed on the families and homes of Mrs Baden-Clay and Ms Meagher.
Well, there are a number of factors at play, according to journalism
ethics expert from the Queensland University of Technology Leo Bowman.
And what it boils down to is the initial reaction to the
disappearance from the police, the media and the general public.
If the police treat it as a potential homicide investigation from the
outset then the media will follow and treat it seriously.
It also helps if there are attractive photos and a narrative is built
around the missing person, which the public can relate to.
The most important and obvious factor is, the public have to care.
"If you don't get the first flush of publicity around it quite often
it goes on the backburner because it is no longer considered a news
story and there is no immediate thing," Dr Bowman said.
"People sometimes think when you've got a crime, they're not sure
whether that person is in some way responsible or if they are a victim
then maybe they put themselves at some risk themselves.
"There is this notion there are some people who are harmless and
particular victims."
He cited Mrs Baden-Clay as an example of a relatable narrative,
saying when she went missing the public very quickly knew she studied
five languages and ballet and was a "wonderful mother".
"In her case and in the case of Jill Meagher we had very attractive
photographs of the person and they look from the photograph to be a very
nice person," he said.
"And that came up straight away, so people sort of identify with the
narrative of the harmless victim.
"And they identify with qualities portrayed as someone they would
like to know."
Dr Bowman said a difficulty in the Sandrine Jourdan case was there
was no exact location where she went missing.
In the case of
Daniel Morcombe and Mrs Meagher, people knew the exact site where
they were last seen – a bus stop on the Sunshine Coast and walking home
from a bar in Brunswick in Melbourne respectively.
He said the locations struck a chord with the public, allowing them
to relate to the missing person on another level.
"A young kid ought to be able to catch a bus without getting killed
and the sense with Jill Meagher is a young woman should be able to walk
500 or 600 metres to her home without [allegedly] getting abducted,
raped and murdered," he said.
"We have that situation set up for us and then people say 'that could
have been me, I walk along that road, my kids have often caught the
bus'.
"She is someone just like me."
Mr Bowman said media usually gauged the newsworthiness of a missing
person case from the initial reaction of the police.
If they seemed "a little bit nonplussed and puzzled" and did not come
out strongly immediately, then the media would not come out strongly.
In the cases of Ms Meagher, Mrs Baden-Clay and Daniel, the outlook
was "grim" fairly early. But in the case of Sandrine, there still seemed
to be hope she would be found alive and ok.
"We do know, and police know, that people go missing all of the time
but they don't always suspect, at least immediately, foul play," he
said.
"So it is a little bit the way police play it, a little bit the way
the media play it and what they have available to play with.
"It's [the coverage] a little bit to do with the way people come to
view that person as 'someone I would like, identify with or someone I
could admire'."
In late August, police renewed appeals for public help to find
Sandrine.
The plea came after a thorough search of bushland, in the Caboolture
area, was conducted by police and State Emergency Services volunteers
but they failed to find her.
Ms Jourdan is known to frequent camping grounds in the Caboolture,
Kilcoy, Moreton Island, Kenilworth and Sunshine Coast areas, north of
Brisbane.
She is described as Caucasian in appearance, 164cm tall with a
proportionate build with brown hair and brown eyes.
At the time of her disappearance, she was wearing a light mauve long
sleeve jumper and dark dress pants.
Anyone with information is urged to contact Crime Stoppers on 1800
333 000 or
crimestoppers.com.au.
Insight, Missing
Transcript
JENNY BROCKIE: Christine, your sister Sandrine disappeared in
July last year. What was going on in her life just before she
disappeared?
CHRISTINE DAY: At the time Sandrine had just broken up with her partner.
JENNY BROCKIE: Are you okay Jessie? Do you want to go? Yeah,
you'd feel better about going, I'm so sorry. Jessie is Sandrine's
daughter, yeah?
CHRISTINE DAY: Sorry, yeah, it's been, it's been very difficult because
of the circumstances of how she went missing. No one's heard, she hasn't
touched her bank account, nothing, nothing's been done. Her children now
live with family members or friends of the family.
JENNY BROCKIE: And I know Jessie really wanted to talk about
this tonight?
CHRISTINE DAY: Yeah, she did.
JENNY BROCKIE: But we've got someone looking after her now, I
should say to everybody.
CHRISTINE DAY: Yeah, she's with Rebecca.
JENNY BROCKIE: But I mean obviously these things are much harder
to talk about than you think they might be when you get here.
CHRISTINE DAY: It's one of those things where with Jessie, she wanted to
talk to and listen to everybody else's stories to see if what we've been
dealing with is the same thing as everybody else and listening to
everybody else, it is the same.
JENNY BROCKIE: Just tell me a little bit more about Sandrine,
what was going on in her life immediately before this?
CHRISTINE DAY: Okay, just prior to her going missing, four weeks prior
to that she had broken up with and on and off relationship she had had.
At that time the children lived with their dad and Jessie was in the
process of coming back to live with her mum and so was Sam the 14 year
old. So at the time, last time I heard is she was getting a Housing
Commission organised, she had applied for TAFE, she was trying to get
things sorted out. She'd even done a website for her art because she was
an artist. Things like that, she had done all of these things but now
the police are telling us that she's a walk off or a suicide is what the
police classed her as of, that's what we were told.
JENNY BROCKIE: What do you think has happened to her?
CHRISTINE DAY: To tell you the truth, honestly I don't think she would
walk off and if she was a suicide or she had attempted that in the past,
but she left us a note. She left us all notes last time.
JENNY BROCKIE: So she'd had mental health problems prior?
CHRISTINE DAY: She did have mental health problems.
JENNY BROCKIE: And your case is in Queensland?
CHRISTINE DAY: My case is in Queensland, yes.
JENNY BROCKIE: Tonight we're talking about why 35,000 people go
missing every year. Jessie, welcome back, I know you want to be here and you
want to talk about this so thank you very much for coming back and I
appreciate that it's probably been a lot harder than maybe you thought it
might be. Tell me a little bit about what it's been like for you when your
mum went missing?
JESSIE BULLA: Well I thought that she'd kind of just went off to cool off.
She'd been a little funny a couple of weeks before I saw her and she just
wasn't herself so I thought maybe she just needs some space from the family,
need time to cool off and then she'll come back. And then when we got the
news that she hadn't touched her bank account, that was the time when I
started suggesting, well, suggesting to myself that something's wrong and
it's just been an emotional roller coaster trying to keep it together.
JENNY BROCKIE: How long has it been now?
JESSIE BULLA: It's nearly been a year, three days and it's been a year.
JENNY BROCKIE: So keep going, what's it been like for you?
JESSIE BULLA: Oh, it's kind of hard. I think I've kind of just took on the
role model with my brothers and sisters to shield my own pain and shield my
own, like I don't really want to confront it.
JENNY BROCKIE: You're the eldest, yeah?
JESSIE BULLA: Yeah, I'm the eldest, and now that I actually have to step
back and say well, I've got to start doing my own life, then that's when
realisations really beginning to hit me that this is real and it's not just
a little thing anymore. So yeah, it's been pretty up and down but I'm
dealing with it.
JENNY BROCKIE: What do you think has happened? Do you think about
what's happened?
JESSIE BULLA: I honestly think that she's either been abducted or she's just
deceased because it's just not like my mum just to leave us kids and not
tell us. If anything, she'd take us with her, but as bizarre as that sounds.
But, yeah, it's just really out of character.
JENNY BROCKIE: But what I'm interested in though is this idea that
you're relying on goodwill in a sense or you're relying on an individual. I
mean how does the system work? If you go missing in New South Wales, it's
not automatically going to everybody in every other state? Does everybody
download everything onto a national system automatically?
CHRISTINE DAY: I was told that there's a national record but then there's
nothing, but I've got an instance where we had a possible siting in Byron
Bay. We actually rang the Byron Bay police station and we were told that my
sister was not even on their register. So the national system where I was
told by the police officer in charge at the time that there is a national
system but it's up to each state to actually put that missing person, if
there's been a report of them, on their system.
JENNY BROCKIE: If I go into a police station and a loved one is
missing and I give them photographs, I give them everything I can give them,
descriptions, what they were last wearing, everything like that, that person
is missing. I go to my local police station, does that automatically get
uploaded into a national system so if that person has gone from say
Melbourne to Perth, it would pop up the next morning in Perth?
CHIEF INSP. PAUL ROUSSOS: Not all the information you just gave, but there
are about, off the top of my head, about a dozen points of information that
will be exchanged and the important bit is that they are missing and some
other basic descriptors. But it's not the case that you get all the
information that goes with a missing person.
JENNY BROCKIE: And does that happen in every state in Australia?
DET. SNR. SGT. RON IDDLES: As far as I know, yes, because I can go in and
check and I can get Western Australia.
CHRISTINE DAY: Okay, because we contacted the Byron Bay police, we called
them, told them our sister was a missing person, gave her the name. The
police officer typed her name in, she goes oh, she's not in our system.
Please get the police officer that's in charge of your sister's case to
contact us.
DET. SNR. SGT. RON IDDLES: But he might have checked, like there's about
four systems. Like unless he checks the CrimTrac one that's Australia wide
it's not going to come up.
JENNY BROCKIE: Jessie, what message would you like to get to out
tonight?
JESSIE BULLA: That for the people that are missing, you aren't alone really,
you have someone to lean on you, someone that cares. Family will always be
there for you no matter what, like through thick and then. You have don't
have to go through it by yourself, ask someone for help, they want to.